🧵 Scientific help needed
Anonymous at Mon, 8 Apr 2024 05:26:30 UTC No. 16118108
How do I become a better communicator and increase my charisma?
I have trouble keeping a conversation going without stopping, being at loss for words, and knowing the right word for when it’s needed. I also stutter a bit.
Is there any scientific method to improve this with many examples to put it into practice?
Anonymous at Mon, 8 Apr 2024 05:33:59 UTC No. 16118118
Take heavy doses of psilocybin until you reach complete ego death, that should do the trick
Anonymous at Mon, 8 Apr 2024 07:42:14 UTC No. 16118265
>>16118108
You don’t have to fill every single second with noise.
You don’t have to immediately respond to a statement. You can let silence elapse for 5, 20 seconds, especially if you use gestics.
If you "umm" and "uuh" a lot kill yourself. A good discussion partner should never do such more than once a minute, and even at that rate it’s grating.
Actually think before wagging your tongue.
Anonymous at Mon, 8 Apr 2024 07:46:06 UTC No. 16118268
>>16118265
Forgot to add, if you jink you need to collect yourself before starting a long point, don’t "umm" or "like", but use phrases like „let me put it this way… (pause)", „look …", „the thing is …“, „the crux is …„, "a interesting point is …„
You have all the tools in the world to not stutter like a moron.