Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 07:42:14 UTC No. 16580068

>>16580064
How long have you been carrying the child? Does he know you're pregnant? When do you think you'll be expecting the baby to arrive?

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 07:59:50 UTC No. 16580075

>>16580064
>>>/adv/

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 10:02:20 UTC No. 16580135

>>16580064
You need to ditch that ZERO and get yourself a HE-RO.

Really though I don't think you can come out of this one on top. I tend to take the path of least resistance though so I'd stay in and if things get too stressful drop out. Or just quit right away and take care of the kid. Not that I want kids right now, but women seem to put them above all else, at least once they start taking care of one of their own.

Barkon !8v8vr3ErDk at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 10:08:46 UTC No. 16580142

Kys, soon

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 11:03:28 UTC No. 16580179

>>16580064
Do you love him?

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 11:09:18 UTC No. 16580180

>>16580064
man this is just sad all around, I go to a stem school and all the girls look so happy there, hope things turn around for you

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 11:27:49 UTC No. 16580193

>>16580064

Yikes! I'm really sorry for you. This is textbook abuse and gas lighting. He's a controlling sexist piece of shit. You should quit his ass, not the university.

I repeat, do NOT quit university. Education is the MOST valuable part of you. But you should switch majors. Engineering is rife with drumpf cultists and this kind of dude bro sexist bullshit.

I'm not here to tell you what you should do, but hit me up if you want to talk.

And please, please, PLEASE abort the cancerous clump of cells growing inside your tummy before it becomes a full grown crotch goblin.

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 11:52:34 UTC No. 16580213

Hey, if you're white, don't get abortion, if you are asian, don't get abortion, but otherwise, get abortion.

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 12:00:53 UTC No. 16580220

>>16580064
just tell him in an honest way that you don't want those 2 years to be wasted and want to finish it
if he really loves you he will be ok with it

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 12:03:44 UTC No. 16580222

>>16580193
I really hope this is just trolling for your sake
otherwise go back to plebbit nigger

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 12:16:10 UTC No. 16580233

>>16580064
So as a virgin myself, I think,
1. why is it that women are able to get husbands all willy nilly but I have never even had a gf at 26? Frankly you should have been more responsible in either practicing safe sex or abstaining altogether.
2. Well now that you're in this situation, on the one hand, a degree is very very stressful, but so is pregnancy, I would imagine it would be very difficult to do both. You should try to continue into the degree as long as reasonably possible, but at some point, you will have to put the degree on hold for awhile. After childbirth it's important to spend time with and bond with the child. I know that sounds bad, but to some degree I'm jealous, I always wanted to make a family, but instead I just wasted myself away on studying Computer Engineering, among other things. The coldness of the lab, the sterility of the books, it can't compare to the warm embrace of life's mysteries.
3. If you don't believe me, let's play a wager. You may rightfully resent your husband now, but consider that if you break up with him now, you'll be a single mother and he'll be heartbroken. If you don't break up with him now, he will inevitably finish his time and then go into civilian piloting or tech and have a much more stable job and he'll be able to help out more often then. When the child is old enough you'll then be able to finish your degree with full financial support.
It's really not worth it at all to end the relationship now, even if he is a fucky lucky ducky, being a pilot is very difficult and comes with its own stresses and sacrifices.
Yes, going back to school later isn't exactly the quintessential college experience, but
1. you're pregnant
2. I didn't have the quintessential college experience of having a relationship, and I'm not even pregnant.
The studies will always be there waiting, they don't age.

>>16580193
Also don't listen to this one, he just wants you to be as miserable as him, ... or as miserable as me, incidentally.

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 12:51:39 UTC No. 16580272

>>16580064
Buddy. You've got a pretty good situation there. I'd say stick with it. It's too bad he's a pilot. But honestly don't pilots make pretty good money. Maybe he'll retire hella early.

Anonymous at Sun, 9 Feb 2025 13:18:57 UTC No. 16580298

>>16580064
There is lots to learn in the kitchen. Have you ever made a roast?