🧵 trouble finding class partner in Muay Thai
Anonymous at Mon, 29 May 2023 20:44:13 UTC No. 148857
this is probably going to sound super dumb, butI just started muay thai about a week ago, im usually the only woman in my classes (there sometimes are two girls who spar together) but otherwise I have trouble finding someone to partner with, and im paired with the super fucking aggressive guy because no one wants to be paired with him. Im a major autist and im not too sure what to ask people since a lot of people there seem to know each other well, and i think a lot of the men might be uncomfortable sparing with a woman who is also a newbie. any tips to be more approachable and how I can talk to people better?
Anonymous at Mon, 29 May 2023 21:12:59 UTC No. 148863
Nope, that's just part of being a girl in combat sports
Just ask the manlets if there are no other girls available
Anonymous at Mon, 29 May 2023 21:22:54 UTC No. 148865
>>148863
kek the manlets are indian and i have been trying pretty hard to avoid them
Anonymous at Mon, 29 May 2023 21:45:27 UTC No. 148866
>>148865
>Indians in kickboxing class
Imagine the smell
Show veganer
Anonymous at Mon, 29 May 2023 21:59:06 UTC No. 148868
>>148865
Well thats your problem. All the non manlets avoid you because they would have to sparr so light and slow on you that they would be better off just shadow boxing or doing bag work. Take the pajeetpill and learn to fend off agressive rapists in a controlled gym setting.
Anonymous at Tue, 30 May 2023 00:56:42 UTC No. 148900
I have no trouble sparring/training with women because I have the skills to be a trainer/coach myself (but there's no money in it unless you get the gay credentials that I don't care about)
Just ask questions even if they sound retarded, everyone is there to learn. But ask the people who don't come across as meatheads, your coach included. All other options fail, ask me
>inb4 simp
I offer the same thing to other anons but no one takes me up on it
Anonymous at Tue, 30 May 2023 02:12:53 UTC No. 148914
>>148857
I feel bad for women so I try to choose them as a partner here and again. I find it odd people don't pick you. My suggestion is to talk about it with your coach or simply be the one to grab someone first or risk being with a faggot every time.
Anonymous at Tue, 6 Jun 2023 00:29:59 UTC No. 150117
>My suggestion is to talk about it with your coach or simply be the one to grab someone first or risk being with a faggot every time.
this is the only advice. whenever i spar women i am scared to hurt them because they are just passive. im not saying be aggresive, its purely based on gender and not skill. there was that one time tho where i fought a girl who was good and got caught off guard. i got whooped
Anonymous at Tue, 6 Jun 2023 00:40:32 UTC No. 150118
>>150117
So many dudes can't switch it off, so many women can't switch it on
Anonymous at Tue, 6 Jun 2023 02:25:45 UTC No. 150128
I've just learned I don't want to practice with girls, It's just too dangerous for them, because a girl just came after me and there was no way that I could match her speed while also keeping my power in check
So I had to make The Choice to either let her get easy potshots on me and move slower than I need to or risk nailing her with the bomb at some point
This bitch was 5' 2 and trying to have a gym war with me, I ended up just shelling up and trying to move out of the way of things because she would have died if I retaliated
Anonymous at Tue, 6 Jun 2023 13:41:25 UTC No. 150172
>>150128
What I usually do is just use the weight of my limbs and don't even tense up at all. You pop them once in the nose and they'll back off
Anonymous at Fri, 9 Jun 2023 00:40:43 UTC No. 150577
>>148857
it sucks but when u fight someone ur size it will feel so much easier.
Anonymous at Fri, 9 Jun 2023 03:06:52 UTC No. 150602
>>148857
This is a larp, Women are barely autistic enough to come to /fit/, much less an obscure board like /xs/ yet I'm supposed to believe my kickboxing muay thai waifu has arrived despite the neurological limitations of the female mind?
Anonymous at Fri, 9 Jun 2023 15:34:48 UTC No. 150676
>>150602
you'd be surprised, also the "rules of girls" don't apply to girls that aren't conventionally attractive or that don't doll themselves up with makeup
back when I was in highschool there was this girl that people called the "molegirl" because she vaguely looked like a mole-rat
nobody ever wanted to date her and people only talked about her to laugh at her expense, it was really sad, she was very quiet and inoffensive too so it came off as merciless, but she was ugly so nobody felt about her
not saying OP is ugly but the only people that have social advantages or a halo of untouchability are pretty and social people regardless of gender, race or whatever
Anonymous at Fri, 9 Jun 2023 17:50:55 UTC No. 150701
Turn around and exit that gym, go to a brazilian jiu jitsu place instead, even if there are no women you can compete with men
Anonymous at Fri, 9 Jun 2023 19:42:11 UTC No. 150711
>>150602
The chance that is a tranny its 99 but the chance that is a women its not 0
Anonymous at Mon, 12 Jun 2023 17:35:37 UTC No. 150999
>>150602
nope im on /fit as well but i mostly just lurk on there, not a tranny, but i almost cut off my boobs a few years ago because i thought i was a dude. thankfully my parents were sane though and wouldnt let me
Anonymous at Mon, 12 Jun 2023 20:09:43 UTC No. 151026
>>150999
You cute now though?
It's too bad the way they take advantage of women with autism by making them think they have dysmorphia when really they're just tomboys
Anonymous at Mon, 12 Jun 2023 23:07:48 UTC No. 151048
>>148857
This girl is very pretty with a cool haircut, is she a famous fighter?
Anonymous at Tue, 13 Jun 2023 03:49:32 UTC No. 151089
>>148857
don't spar with anyone who goes too hard. there is never shame in saying "no i'll pass" to a round. It's okay. If that's not allowed at your gym, FIND A NEW GYM. that gym sucks. Also, regardless of size the people you spar with should be able to go light enough that it's not a problem. If that isn't possible then the people at your gym lack control and therefore it's a bad gym. Therefore either way, if problem persists, that means that the gym sucks.
Anonymous at Thu, 29 Jun 2023 09:47:07 UTC No. 153769
Anonymous at Tue, 4 Jul 2023 05:10:06 UTC No. 154654
Anonymous at Thu, 6 Jul 2023 14:09:20 UTC No. 155017
>>148857
>tI just started muay thai about a week ago
>>148857
>im paired with the super fucking aggressive guy because no one wants to be paired with him.
wtf
Anonymous at Thu, 6 Jul 2023 16:02:13 UTC No. 155033
>>150701
You will never be a a real fighter. You have no conditioning, no real combat sparring experience or pressure testing. You are a fat manchild twisted by gracie make-belief power fantasies into a mockery of nature's perfection.
All 'validation' you get on fight forums is two-faced and half-hearted. Behind your back people mock you. True fighters are disgusted by your "combat stance", spreading your cheeks on the ground trying to sniff other mans balls. Even Bas Rutten deems you spastic nerds.
Actual martial artists are utterly repulsed by you. Thousand years of man-to-man combat has allowed martial artists to sniff out frauds with incredible efficiency. Even tryhards who "pass" look uncanny and unnatural to a martial artist wearing a gi or thai shorts. Your pasty nerdy appearance and demeanor in addition to your constant craving to showcase your cringe obsession with clothing that has "BJJ" plastered all over it is a dead giveaway. And even if you manage to fool a fighter into considering to take your guidance for something, he will turn tail and bolt once they see you perform under any kind of light sparring.
You will never be able to defend anything. You wrench out a spandex clad technique video on your 0 view youtube account and lower your gym attendance fees by 10$ and tell yourself things will turn out ok, but deep inside you feel the depression creeping up like a weed, ready to crush you under the unbearable weight of your belly.
Eventually it'll be too much for you to bear - you attend a real mma gym and challenge an actual fighter who will break your orbital bone before you get a chance at sniffing his balls and die of the complications. Your "students" are heartbroken, but relieved that they don't need to make scripted videos anymore and take your place to lead the cult. They'll ship your body to Brazil to be consumed by jungle macaques. Your body will decay and turn to dust and all that will remain is the name of a LARP that was undeniably 0-1
🗑️ Anonymous at Mon, 17 Jul 2023 10:11:32 UTC No. 156919